Adam Oakley September 16, 2016 Q + A How To Deal With My Family & Be Free From The Family's Opinions? Adam Oakley September 16, 2016 Q + A Let yourself feel judged in the worst or most humiliating way possible. Don’t resist it. If you invite all of this, if you imagine the family judging you in some negative way, and you don’t fight against it, then what happens? What happens to you?